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What's in it for Me ?

1. We help our members sift though a sea of (mostly bad) Information and advice: We weed through all of the so-called gurus to help members figure out what is good and what is a waste of time and money.
2. Content: We have world-class speakers in every monthly meeting, we give you informational newsletters, we facilitate classes with some of the best in the field at a fraction of the normal cost, and our forum contains the wisdom from those that have been there and done it before.
3. We are a community of like-minded people with high standards and life balance. We are all genuinely setting aside ego and working to improve our lives. There is no better context for networking, creating mentor relationships, and building life-long friendships. To help create this sense of community, we host roundtable discussions, "meet & greets", and other facilitated events.
4. We provide one-on-one and small group coaching that is based on your individual needs. Rather than teach a method, we help you formulate your personal goals and then manage those goals so that you are where YOU want to be. We do this out of love, not love for money, and our students can tell the difference.

What are you guys about?

We believe in the impossible. We are a community of exceptionally driven, loyal and improvement-oriented lovers. We balance creating a successful community with creating successful relationships, interpersonal and communication skills. We are here to do nothing less than change the world, one person at a time.

How did this organization first start?

This group started in 2007, as an informal way to get together with people who were devoted to meeting higher quality prospects of the opposite sex and to learn and share with each other better ways of improving ourselves and our relationships.

How often do you meet?

We meet on the first Saturday of every month.

Where do you guys meet?

The Ethical Society Building, SW Corner of Rittenhouse Square, 1906 S. Rittenhouse Square, from 2:30pm to 6pm.

What's a typical experience of your meeting?

A typical member comes in at 2:30, meets some new people with a few commonalities and they agree to meet up and support each other and/or visit at a new spot together.

As the meeting starts at 3pm, the main speaker delivers his or her presentation on a special topic that the person takes some notes on and finds at least one or two new things that they are excited to start using because it will greatly increase their success and they've never thought of it before.

Then, at the roundtable, the attendees start throwing around questions and answers and one of them hits close to home and someone else chimes in as well. A person may find lots of others have a similar challenge and one of the more members offer some great advice that worked for them and once again, there is a never-thought-of new solution.

Now this person has a new friend, a new spot, a couple new ideas they're excited to try out and a new solution to an old problem.

And all for $6 bucks!

How can I join? Is there a cost?

Currently there is no cost to join VybeList Philadelphia, but you must be local.

Do you have an online forum? How is it run?

We have an online forum that is for members only. It has a general discussion board, product recommendations and testimonials, wing requests, health, wealth and relationships, to name a few. The forum is moderated according to our house rules which generally focuses on a non-advertisement and non-flaming policy.

If I'm not from Philadelphia or the surrounding tri-state (Delaware and Southern New Jersey) area, can I still take advantage of the same resources as the members?

Yes, although prices will vary. You can still get access to our quality and entertaining newsletters and announcements, our online products and resources, take advantage of our audio recordings for each roundtable every month and yes, even join us at our monthly meetings.

Why do you restrict non-local guys from being on your forum?

We are not just about building our personal influence and magnetism. We are also dedicated to building a community culture where you can get to know your neighbors, explore the local hot spots, learn from each other face to face and create friendships.

We understand that you want to participate with the local members now, but the fact is being geographically removed also makes it a much greater sacrifice for you to participate on the same level as our current members.

I have a friend who wants to join. Can they get any special treatment?

We comp them for the next meeting after they have signed on as a member.

I'm just starting out, what other resources do you recommend and why?

We have been asked this many times and we prefer you go to the best. The affiliates we work with have been chosen on the quality of product, service and results of the typical student. Please explore our list of partners here.

I'm a guy who just wants a wingman, how can the lair help?

Become a member in order to access our searchable member's database. Or you could post wing requests on our online forums. Members also have their phone numbers listed in their profile to easily connect with each other.

I just want the skills, why do you focus on community?

Our group is about relationships. With ourselves, with each other and with those we date. The strong sense of community creates an incredible geometric synergy that is only possible when people transcend the desire to serve only themselves. Even the most selfish who experience our community spirit often find that helping others is the best way to help themselves and that the value of the community depends on this spirit.

How can I be an instructor?

We have an instructor program designed to evaluate your current level of skill, potential ability to teach, organizational skills as well as your OWN coachability (i.e. ability to follow direction). If we take you on, you will then go through an educational process to ensure our members and students each receive a reliably extraordinary experience. Please contact us at admin@vybelist.com in order to be considered.

I'm not very social. I don't really talk to girls. What can you do for me?

We've had guys like you who've come into our group without social skills, but had a burning desire to improve and put as much time and energy as was necessary to overcome and learn to be socially successful. While we recommend having a balanced life, sacrificing a large part of your time, energy and focus is appropriate to get to a point where you can develop the social intelligence that is a necessary foundation to being an attractive man. After that, the skills to manage the male and female dynamic are straight forward.

I have a friend who could really use this group resource. How can I get them involved?

We recommend you don't push this on anyone. It is not for everyone and from the experience of our members, it can often cause resentment between friends. It's best for your friends to be inspired by you and let their own curiosity take the first step.

I love what your group has done for me and I want to give back. How can I help ?

Right now, we have a small handful of volunteers who believe in our mission and have decided to step up and contribute in their own way to the community. Current functions include: recruiting intermediate members, running roundtable events, running community events, in-field coaching, project management, web design and programming. If you have something you believe is special enough to contribute, don't hesitate to step up and start a conversation with us right away.

I want to sign up my youngest child. How do I go about this?

You must be at least 18 years old to become a member.

What's in store for the future?

That's tough to say. While our continued growth is clearly anticipated and we will continually improve how we serve and bring value to our members and community, our direction beyond that vision remains to be seen.

I'm from the media, do you have a press kit?

Up until now, we've remained a hidden, secret and we've successfully avoided attention from the media so that our group can stay relatively small and easy to manage - but our unbelievable success and massive growth recently we've decided to finally go public. Since we respect the privacy of our member greatly, we have conditions for the media we choose to work with. In the meantime, our press kit can be found here.