"People are attracted AT FIRST to style over substance..."

Becoming a more effective communicator not only greatly improves your business relationships, but also opens the door to far more success in dating, and more to the point, helps you more effectively attract the types of partner you really want.
Study the nature and skills of influence... to improve your personal and professional life. There's no need to change your entire personality, or become manipulative in any undesirable way. Find out what most movers and shakers already understand intuitively. And when you hear one or two things that resonate deeply for you, feel free to follow each trail at your own pace and level of curiosity.
You'll love what's waiting for you!
Improve Your Silent Communication Skills
Whether you know it or not, most conversations you'll ever have with others... begin long before anyone opens their mouths. In general, your body language precedes verbal language. What does your body language say? Furthermore, do you even have an understanding of what body language can be – other than overgeneralized judgments of posture and gestures?
What if you went to school again just to develop your body language conversation skills? Such that you could become more savvy about how to have entire conversations with others, completely non-verbally?
Anyone who can quietly engage and influence people in a room before they open their mouths... attracts more and better business relationships, and is likely to be amongst the most charming and charismatic people in the room. As Tony Robbins would say, people are attracted at first to style over substance. Sharpening and enhancing your body language communication skills helps you stand out, head and shoulders above a crowd of ineffective communicators, regardless of their visual attractiveness. Remember, attraction is a process, not a still picture.
Jonathan Altfeld has developed some unique knowledge and expertise in training people to become more effective nonverbal communicators... to actually speak (!) nonverbally and create entire conversations with others, uniquely, on the fly. He'll share a few valuable tips with us in our webinar to help you attract more of the types of dating partners you really desire (as well as become more influential in business).
Developing a more charming and charismatic voice
Let's talk VOICE. Did you know men with “Deeper Voices” will have more kids, attract more women, and ALSO tend to make women think a man is more likely to cheat? It's not because of some wired connection between deep voices and infidelity. It's only because people seem to understand that deeper voices make men more likely to attract more partners.
Thing is, it's not just men. The traditional judgment is that men with deeper voices and women with higher voices attract more. But if you ask a group of people of both genders, which famous actresses have the best voices, you'll almost exclusively hear names of women whose voices are on the lower and deeper end of the spectrum (up to a point; not until those voices become masculine).
Aside from just Pitch, which CAN be adjusted and affected more easily than most of you may think, Jonathan has spent years helping people dramatically improve their resonance, their dynamic range, their skill with rhythm, and more intentional pausing, and a LOT more. During this webinar, Jonathan will share a range of highly valuable lessons he's acquired over years of working with people's voices! You'll become a more confident communicator, which colors EVERYTHING you say with greater charm and attractiveness.
Flirting with NLP
Many of you already know NLP is extraordinary for enabling people to flirt more effectively. NLP has been at the root of the men’s dating advice industry since the early-mid 1990's. But seducing a woman is not the same thing as flirting.
For connecting with people for the first time: One of the most helpful and important things to do from the very beginning of any connection is to “own” the perceptions other people will create about you.
And while you can improve your health and fitness and skin and other things over time, while you can buy a nicer wardrobe and do lots of other things that improve things over time... most of you stand to gain immensely from not letting ongoing improvements (or desired GOALS you may have) prevent you from enjoying right now, this moment.
This is about learning to create better states, and manage them throughout your interactions. It's also about not letting other people make typical judgments about you. This is done through pattern interrupts and unusual behavior.
“Peacocking” can be one of the methods you achieve this, but this flamboyant sort of behavior is also a bit.... well... amateurish. We recommend you learn more about how people form judgments, and then... you'll know how to interrupt their judging process, or prevent such judgments altogether.
Jonathan will share several tips with you to help you achieve all this more elegantly in our live upcoming Webcast this month.
Now, join Jonathan’s bootcamp: “Unleashing Your Inner Flirt, with NLP ;-)”
Free for the first 50 men & women who register... and we’re almost full!
For more info and to RSVP, follow this link:
Blog & Announcements
VDay for the Rest of Us

Another great event from our good friend Christina…
"Valentine's Day is thought to be a day for couples, but what about those of us who are single? Join us for this unique event that is especially tailored for those of us looking for connection, intimacy and sensuality. The evening will begin with seperate men and women's circles where we each look at the unique desires, challenges and opportunities we have in our journey with the opposite sex. And then the fun starts! Both circles join and are led through a series of beautiful and deep exercises that will connect and delight you!"
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Announcing: NYC Workshop with Tyler/Julien

Real Social Dynamics - as featured in The Game by Neil Strauss - is back on Thursday, February 9. Spend a couple hours immersed in a seminar experience on female attraction (with a 10 year specialist) developing your cold approach.
“These guys represent cutting edge of knowledge when it comes to meeting women, and you can’t go wrong investing your time and money with them.” ~David DeAngelo
Well, you can cross out the word MONEY for now…
Read more...Brad P Returns to New York City
Brad P Returns to New York City
After 3 Years The #1 Rated Expert Returns to NYC -One Night Only!
Date: Tuesday, January 3rd, 2012
Time: 7:30pm – 9:30pm
Location: RG Studios, 520 8th Ave.
Floor/Room: 16L
Price:$19.95* (early sign-up discount only)
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Eye Gazing Party
FYI: A great friend and past speaker at Vibe Society, Christina Berkley, is holding an event we'd like to share with you.
In the meantime, VS will be back shortly. We are currently working on more events and fresh, powerful content. The wait will be worth it....
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EYE GAZING PARTY
Asking her where she's from does NOT create attraction. Telling him you're a paralegal does NOT make him want you right then and there. Eye contact DOES. At this event, an even number of singles will meet in an attractive space. After a fun mini-lesson in the art and psychology of eye contact, the group will split into pairs, each of whom will spend up to two minutes looking into each other’s eyes. There is no talking, no shuffling, no nothing but space and heat and electricity. Pairs will switch every one to two minutes, for a total of around half an hour. Afterwards there will be a few games followed by music and mingling. Two minutes of eye contact is the Cadillac of ice-breakers. Come break the ice at Reflections After Dark.
Date: Tuesday, November 15th
Time: 8pm-10pm
Cost: $15
Pre-registration is necessary as we try to keep the event as gender balanced as possible. If you would like to come, please contact Christina at christinareflections@gmail.com
Check it out in Time Out Magazine!!
Read more...Jeffy from RSD is Back!

What up mah peeps,
Always enjoy giving a shout out to one of our favorite NYC guests when they are in town. This next week, Jeff Allen (aka Jlaix, aka Jeffy) from Real Social Dynamics is BACK.
They never fail, never disappoint and always deliver... not to mention, the infield video is one of the best ways (besides actually being infield with them) to absorb and get the right "feel" on how it's all supposed to go down... beginning to end.
Not to mention...it's freakin funny.
And not to mention... it's always highly inspiring.
Not to mention...again, it's free. Therefore, more awesome :-)
All RSVP Instructions can be found here: http://vibesociety.com/jeffynyc
For the full details, read Jeffy's email below...
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