Coaching for Men

We’ve been fortunate enough to establish extraordinarily effective live training programs through years of successes, learning from failures of other professionals and of course, through years of hands-on, personal experience. 

We do it at a modest cost in order to make it as available as possible to our community – to our future wingmen – while maintaining and delivering the highest value, quality and results.

So what makes this program soooo special?

What you have is 12 weeks of personalized coaching that’s designed to create small but sustainable successes with each in-field experience and then build on that success every week, using feedback on your strengths and weakness, creating homework assignments and relying on universal keys of seduction that are always foundational to any and every man’s success with women.

Your program will start with taking inventory of where you are… where are you now? What are your current strengths and weaknesses? Where would you like to be after 3 months of being in this program?

What do you think has to happen to get there? What is the definition of your ideal woman/women? Does it match your current identity or the identity you intend to create for your ideal life?

Next, you design-in your ideal states…

Remember, it’s not enough to achieve. If you truly had everything you wanted, wouldn’t you want to achieve happily, and without fear? Wouldn’t you want to be the guy that was not only able to attract extraordinary women, but was extraordinary himself to these women?

When you imagine your ideal self, everyone chooses a model of confidence, power, passion… someone who’s happy and smiling AND achieving without breaking a sweat… James Bond even does it in a tuxedo!

This is a typical example of when you know you’ve “made it”. Whatever that is for you, it will serve as the benchmark of your ultimate success in this program. Now, many of my members aren’t total “newbies” at this and they will simply start further into the lessons and progress to an even farther point.

Did you know Michael Jordan had a coach?

Everyone needs a coach and Michael Jordan understood that even the best need a coach, even though he was obviously much more skilled than his coach! Why? Because like a personal trainer who meets you every Monday morning at the gym, the key is having someone knowledgeable who can consistently get you to take action on what you already know, practicing and building on the fundamentals no matter how simple until you are able to really deliver during those key or clutch moments that define success and failure.

There’s an Eastern saying that goes “if I want to teach you nothing, I will teach you everything.”

But I think my Gym-Rat buddy said it best; “If you hit the gym for three days in a row and exercise all your muscles for 8 hours straight, you are not going to get stronger. In fact, you will end up weaker then when you started because the body is being over trained and so you get no growth or anything to show for it. The body is made to grow through spaced repetition and training by being challenged a little bit more over time. Muscles don’t just grow over night!”

So there you have it.

While we know this is just an analogy and doesn’t negate the value of a weekend workshop where you can learn and immerse yourself completely, it’s also a fact that the mind also works like a muscle. You need to understand it not intellectually, but physically, in your body, in your neurology and let those new neurons grow into the desired automated habits.

A seminar may help you intellectually UNDERSTAND everything you will work on in your 12 week program, but the difference is now you will get to EXPERIENCE them all.

Imagine walking into some of the hottest scenes of New York… clubs, lounges, restaurants, malls… and experiencing each lesson in real life, with real women and in real time. We call this in-field experience. And make no mistake about it… you will have live, in-field instruction and demonstrations with real women of New York AND detailed feedback on each and every interaction.

Naturally most men who’ve never witnessed this type of thing will be skeptical.

However, seeing it with your own eyes is like nothing you could ever understand until you actually see it. That’s when the “aha!” switch triggers inside and you KNOW it’s possible and you know what its supposed to look like – therefore, you can do it too.

But most guys don’t “get it” until this happens… and once it does, that moment becomes a mind-blowing experience you will never forget.

Now, while MOST lessons will take place “in the field”, some lessons will require more detailed and in-depth explanations. So you will also be required to sit down and participate in exercises that are complementary and will prep the groundwork for a proper mindset and understanding.

For example, you will create personalized conversation starters during exercises that you will use immediately, but first you will understand the structure of what makes it successful.

You will then use and tweak them during the week so that you can gauge which worked best. Not only that, you will know WHY they worked best from real personal experience and from then on, you’ll be able to develop similar starters on the fly and for any situation.

Now, to get an even better idea of what you can expect, let’s walk through some real-life examples of 3 students who now enjoy a successful dating life because they took the first step:

3 CASE STUDIES

CASE STUDY #1: Alexander – Extreme Approach Anxiety

Of all the workshops we’ve done over the last 4 years, Alexander had probably THE worst approach anxiety we’ve ever seen. We learned a lot from him. He just moved to New York and came to us after going through several other instructors who couldn’t help him over come his fear of talking to strangers.

The common irony is, Alexander was a brilliant, brilliant mind with a genius IQ who had served as Lieutenant back home, was involved in dog fights during his training and even performed as a professional hip hop dancer in Los Angeles!

Alexander was a very interesting person with bullet proof determination but when it came to girls… he would verbally say “yes” about talking to someone nearby but nothing in high heaven would get him to budge an inch.

In fact, anytime he would even THINK about approaching a stranger – man or woman – he would visibly panic, become short of breath, widen his eyes, and his whole body would become stiff as a board.

We tried about a dozen different methods to get him to relax and open up, but he was very uncooperative, to say the least. If it was any worse, we probably would have sent him home to see a psychotherapist.

And here he was, demanding “how long will it take for me to get phone numbers from hot girls?”

SOLUTION: Keep it simple stupid!

We decided to go back to basics.

Because he was so intellectual we kept talking to a minimum. We discovered that there were maybe 2 or 3 times in his life where he talked to strangers he didn’t know and it was because he was not worried about getting them to like him. So, of course, we used that model back on him.

While we pumped his states to access his emotional circuitry – and bypass his analytical mind – we gave him an illogical opener “I really like salad” while we punched him on the shoulder with each and every syllable, repeating it loudly over and over and having him repeat it with us.

So while Alexander was starting to feel juiced, we kept him literally out of his mind and in his physical body. And so without thinking he did his first approach of the evening. And within one hour he had done over a half dozen approaches that went so fast it was all just a blur.

This rapid-fire pace of his approaching also created momentum for him emotionally which also helped the desensitization process and he was now on a positive spiral.

Less than 5 months later, after doing another 12 coaching sessions with us, Alexander had done over 500 approaches, number closed and dated several women and even had some girls approaching HIM because now, because as they said… “he just seems to have something about him!”

Turn around complete.

CASE STUDY #2: Tom – Unsuccessful Attraction & Escalation

Tom was one of those guys you could just hang with.

He radiated a relaxed, friendly vibe and could hold an interesting and fun conversation on just about anything you could serve up. On top of that, he could talk to any stranger, any girl, no matter how intimidating her looks might be for most. He was a social butterfly and in fact, all women loved him.

So what was the problem?

If you saw him talking to girls you’d see the girls smiling… but after a while, it was clear the women would get visibly bored, his conversation was going nowhere, and poor Tom ended the night the same way he started it.

Alone.

Tom wanted desperately to take it further. But he was so afraid of making the wrong move… of turning her off and being thought of as a sleazy bar creep or having a drink thrown in his face. He wanted to ask “can I kiss you?” but he knew from experience it was the wrong way to go. So he kept to himself and anguished on the inside… at least this way, he knew she would still like him.

So girls always saw him as a cool friend they liked to hang with, but never the guy they’d date. I know what it feels like. I’ve been there. And I can tell you now… it all boils down to this – understanding the basic differences between men and women.

THE SOLUTION: Learning female psychology

Tom not only needed a few lessons in female psychology, he also needed a few very simple, but very safe ways of testing a woman’s responsiveness. That way, he’d know it was “okay” with her and he had the green light to move forward.

So we showed him the many cues girls gave him throughout the night…

The flicking of her hair, eye contact, the positioning of her feet when she stood close to him, the quality of her laugh when he told his stupid jokes, the few times she punched him on the arm as a way to start the physical conversation with him, and yes, even the time when she accused him of being a liar because he talked about his new job as a circus freak.

Once he saw these openings, he knew instantly how to respond in kind.

He noticed the girls standing close by and talked to the ones who seemed most open, he noticed when she laughed that high pitched laugh and he followed up with a light touch on her side… he punched back, he responded to her accusations with a twinkle in his eye and acted like he was totally shocked she had called him out… role play at it’s most fun.

Then we gave him a few simple and safe ways to test her physical responsiveness.

After a few minutes of conversation, he’d sit in a nearby chair and she’d join him. He walked her around the bar with her arm in his – French style – and played a guessing game we taught him, as they people-watched. And very soon they were leaning into each other, holding hands flirtatiously, whispering in each other’s ears and yes, kissing with slow abandon.

Tom was learning the art of flirting the way women think… by communicating on the NON-VERBAL LEVEL and by using playful and INDIRECT FLIRTING and bantering. But this time he knew what actual cues to look for that are often very subtle and how to give out the same cues in a way she can understand and feel comfortable with.

From then on, Tom would simply let nature take its course… and just as naturally, Tom dated very successfully since then – and he didn’t need any more help beyond that night.

CASE STUDY #3: Mark – Information Overload

This student comes along more often that you’d think. He knows everything, he’s taken every workshop and seminar in existence, read every book, joined every group and listened to every home study course.

He could walk into any room and tell you more about how a “pickup” should go down than a highly paid dating coach. He knew it all – he just couldn’t do it all.

Mark was a little on the shy side, lived in New York all his life and loved baseball. But deep down he was in a bad place. He was very frustrated and because he knew so much, he was also very aware of what he should be doing all the time, but couldn’t seem to make it happen.

Not only that, he must have spent TONS of his personal income and hard cash to learn so much, meanwhile he felt like he had nothing to show for it at the end of the night when he was home and completely alone. It all drove him crazy and he was fast becoming his own worst enemy.

The truth was, Mark had glimmers of excellence and every once in a while he’d wow his friends with the reactions he could get with his knowledge and skills when they went out to bars and clubs.

His major challenge was when he met a great girl that he found extremely attractive and had a lot of the qualities he looked for – or even better, she was a baseball nut like him – he lost it.

What we had was a kid who was long on education and short on experience.

In our first session together, we defined “what do you REALLY want?” He wanted a great girl. And he knew that he needed the ability to consistently attract the higher quality of girls he wanted whenever they came along.

What we gave Mark was a methodical program that turned all his studying into digestible learning experiences.

THE SOLUTION: Less talk, more action!

When we first created our one-on-one 12 week program we had students like Mark in mind. We told him to forget everything he’s learned. Knowledge without action is useless – and in fact, is often a bigger hinderance than when you are a clean slate.

So every week we focused on one lesson. Approaching, attraction, having a positive attitude, creating successful dates, connecting on deeper levels, clarifying your identity and conveying a powerful personality according to the girl you look for.

This methodical, step-by-step focus was practically made-to-order for Mark.

He had to talk to at least 20 new girls every week. We sat down and figured out exactly what might get in his way of keeping this weekly commitment and then we figured out how to make it work. And each week, we gave him new homework assignments for the focus of that lesson.

Whenever we met face to face, we always made sure to give him extremely simple “missions” to complete.

For example, if he kept forgetting to pay attention to the girl’s friends (so he didn’t seem rude to her peer group) and to sit down after a few minutes (so that he didn’t seem weird talking and standing with a seated group), we’d have him talk to the next group with only two words to remember, “Friends! Sit!” – and we made sure he did it at least 3 different times that night.

Real life was like a slap in the face but it wasn’t long before his experience started to catch up to his book smarts and his “aha!” moments became a very regular and predictable affair… the experience of understanding clicked with his intellectual understanding.

His improvement over the last 6 weeks of the program was dramatic to say the least. Mark was soon drowning in dates and seemed to enjoy his new ability to get the kinds of girls he’s always wanted.

In fact, he’s gotten so picky these days that he dates less and less but his relationships are lasting longer and longer.

Just having a very clear, guided and focused game plan was the first step. And by making each step so impossibly easy for him along the way, there was no way he could fail to complete each lesson and “get it” – and the rest is pretty straightforward.

Mark is now living life – his life. He happily lives with his girlfriend Emma and they are both taking up new hobbies together, like salsa dancing and finger painting… and last we saw, the glow on his face seems to say he’s right where he needs to be.

This is not just a program, this is a process of self-actualization.

Some other major points of concentration include;

·        Goal Setting & Inventory

·        Proper Mindset

·        Meeting & Dating

·        Generating a powerful identity

·        Having Fun

·        Starting Conversations

·        Fashion & Congruency

·        Creating Attraction

·        Female Psychology

·        Creating Deeper Connections

·        And more…

As you can see, this is a carefully put together and complete package. And nobody, but nobody has anything like it.

However, there is a catch… and they are non-negotiable:

1.     You must be able to invest AT LEAST 6 to 8 hours per week for homework assignments that must be completed during the 6 days between each lesson

2.     You must be able to attend each weekly lesson at the same time every week, for 12 consecutive weeks in a row

3.     You must be able to provide detailed and honest feedback on your experience every week (anonymously)

4.     That if you get everything you want from this program – and it’s almost impossible not to -  then you must refer at least 3 new, qualified clients because you will not only be singing our praises… you will rock their entire WORLD when they see you talking to the most beautiful girls and have them eating out of your hand

Since most of them are designed to insure an optimal experience for you, in the end you will benefit most. In fact, if you go through this entire program… do all of the exercises… do all of the lessons… and do all of the homework assignments… it will be simply impossible for you NOT to improve – significantly.

And what’s even more head spinning is that you have up until the first three weeks to decide if you want to continue. In that case, the rest of the program will be refunded (minus the first three, of course), so there’s almost ZERO risk to you.

2-and-a-half minutes that COULD change your life forever

Because our philosophy is to try to create the highest quality services at prices that will make it available to as many folks as possible. That’s why, while 36 hours of personal coaching from any expert would normally cost upwards of $10,000, we are offering it for only a fraction.

This is the reason we require 3 qualified referrals from you. Because it means we spend less money on advertising, which means it costs us less to support a program like this.

Remember, we are here to build a community and we understand that your friends are also your wings – so not are we more than happy to take them on… we prefer to work with them instead.

Also, we want guys like you.

Guys who are committed, ready to step up and who are personally motivated to get their dating life handle. And there’s no better recommendation than from a friend who’s personally benefited.

So you have a choice…

You can take this program with one other student (date and time is subject to availability). That means you both start on the same date and time and end 12 weeks later at the same date and time. Or you can take it solo.

If you want to take it solo for maximum attention and learning, your tuition investment will be $3,497. That’s approximately $291 per week, or $97 per hour, or $38 dollars per day.

Most guys spend at least that much on night-life clothes, club entry, taxis and alcohol when they go out with their friends every Friday and Saturday, pretending they are going out to meet some “hot chicas” but really end up getting drunk and going home alone.

Or, if you want to take the 12 week program as a group class then, as previously mentioned, you will have one other person participating with you. Your tuition investment will be $1,997. That’s approximately $166 per week, or $55 per hour, or $22 per day.

Also keep in mind that many students are already taking advantage of these packages and we will most likely have more instructors in a few months but until then availability is very limited and it’s first come, first served.

The next 3 months will be used to set up your dating destiny for the rest of your life.

Imagine what it will be like when you are a graduate and you can walk into any room, take control of the party, start conversations with anyone, be the center of attention and choose the most beautiful women to date, both inside AND out.

Where you know with absolute and relaxed confidence that you will see her again – because you’ve done this before many times – and that not only will you both have a great time getting to know each other, but you will be in total control of what you want from the relationship.

Whereas before you always SAW the girl you want, talking and smiling and laughing with another average looking guy and eventually walk off with her while you were stuck with your friends wishing you were that guy and imagining all the things they would be doing together that night.

Now you can enjoy that same feeling of exhilaration you get when you see an amazing looking girl that makes your heart leap and after just a few minutes of relaxed chatting you can look into her eyes and realize she’s looking back at you with fascination and an unmistakable, flirtatious excitement… yes, she wants to see you again.

And, you know she likes you for you – it’s not a façade.

When you sign up…

It will take you 2 –and-a-half minutes, or 150 seconds.

Once you click through the payment process, the exact 3 hour weekly time slots and days of the weeks that are available will be displayed and you can choose which ever one works for you. And don’t forget, you have up until the 3^rd week to decide if you want to continue or not. We’ll be happy to refund you the remaining 9 weeks of the program in that case, no questions asked.

Take your dating life into your hands and prove to yourself that you’re finally ready to step up, right now. Because if it’s not you, someone else surely will.

150 seconds. 2-and-a-half minutes…

That’s 2-and-a-half minutes that could change your life forever. If you feel like your relationships with women are important to you… if you feel it makes a real impact on your future joy and suffering because you know this from experience… then this could be the most important 150 seconds you will ever spend.

As they say, “fortune favors the bold”.

Will it be you?